I
ask myself this every single day, especially today. Two kids have already had
breakdowns over simple, easy things. Things that they should of learned before
now, especially since they are in 6th and 7th grade. I’m talking about basic addition and
subtraction and grammar, simple right? Well every single time I tried to
explain the steps to them I encountered this statement “I don’t understand, you
make no sense.” Hmmmmm…well there is not an easier way to explain it to them.
What
am I doing wrong? Why did I have this bright idea to homeschool? Why do I put
myself through this madness? Why don’t they understand? I ask myself these
questions every single day. I know I’m not the only homeschool mom that has
these thoughts or feels like a failure.
Then
I think back to why didn’t they learn this at school? I’m not blaming any of
their teachers, because they had the best teachers along the way until we
homeschooled. I am blaming our society and the stupid common core crap! We now
live in a society where it is okay to play “dumb” and have someone else do the
work for you. We coddle kids, we make them feel they are entitled to anything
and everything instead of working hard for it. My kids want me to tell them the
answers, however I don’t agree with that, I tell them how to get to the answer
themselves. That is when the arguing begins.
Don’t
get me wrong, my kids are very bright and gifted. They each moved on to the next
grade before any of their public school friends, but when they get in this
mindset, it is impossible to change it on that day.
Every
day is a new beginning and tomorrow will be better. Just needed to write a
little something to encourage myself that I am doing the right thing, even if
it’s not immediately clear right now! My girls are getting the best education
they can get by having all different opportunities opened up in their learning
by homeschooling.
If
you are a homeschool mama and have gone through this, please comment. We are
united together towards one common goal and MAMA YOU CAN DO THIS!!!